Back-to-School Co-Parenting Tips: A Pro’s Perspective on Planning and Cooperation

As summer winds down, the back-to-school season is a prime opportunity for co-parents to set a cooperative, child-focused tone. Whether you’re newly separated or have been co-parenting for years, thoughtful planning and clear communication can make the school year smoother for everyone.

Here are my top tips for navigating the transition successfully — both legally and practically.

1. Review Your Parenting Plan

Before the first bell rings, revisit your custody agreement or parenting plan. Confirm weekday schedules, transportation, and decision-making responsibilities are still clear and workable. If changes are needed, put them in writing and, when appropriate, file a formal modification.

2. Coordinate Supplies and Expenses

Agree in advance on how school-related costs will be shared — from backpacks to extracurricular fees. Keep receipts and use shared expense-tracking tools to maintain accountability and avoid disputes.

3. Align Routines Across Households

Consistency helps children thrive. Try to coordinate homework time, bedtime, and screen time rules across both homes. Even if your routines differ slightly, make sure your child knows what to expect in each household.

4. Share School Information Equally

Both parents should have access to school calendars, teacher updates, and report cards. Take proactive steps to be included in all school communications — don’t rely on the other parent to forward information.

5. Plan for School Events

Decide early who will attend back-to-school nights, parent-teacher conferences, and extracurricular activities. Alternating attendance or attending together can help keep your child out of the middle.

6. Encourage Parent-Child Communication

Support regular, age-appropriate contact between your child and the non-custodial parent. A quick call or message about a school project can go a long way in reinforcing connection.

7. Stay Flexible

Life happens — be ready to adjust for illness, schedule changes, or academic challenges. Keep a record of changes to avoid misunderstandings later.

Final Thoughts

Back-to-school season is more than just new pencils and schedules — it’s a chance to strengthen cooperation and keep your child’s best interests front and center. If you have questions about your parenting plan or need help navigating co-parenting challenges, proactive legal guidance can make all the difference.

Need guidance on your parenting plan this school year?

Contact Fava Law to schedule a consultation.